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As I am writing from my perspective I tend to be a bit (unintentionally) biased towards women, and how we see the world, what we want and how we like our scents. Of course as I mention in my previous post (Essential Oil Recipes for the Gentleman), men can and do like floral oils, and woman love woods and deeper oils. So I am writing from a female perspective but take note gentleman – follow my guide to impress your partner in the subtle art of seduction by scent.
According to Wikipedia
A boudoir (French: [bu.dwaʁ], English: /ˈbuːd.wɑːr/) is a lady’s private bedroom, sitting room or dressing room. The term derives from the French verb bouder, meaning “to be sulky” or boudeur, meaning “sulky”.
So if you are a man or a woman, your space behind closed doors becomes your “boudoir” with some oils and a little intention.
Here are my suggestions for lovely, sexy oil blends with a few recipes too.
My Top 3 Sexy Oils
The spidery, seductive Ylang Ylang flower
1. Ylang Ylang
Keywords: aphrodisiac, release anger and frustration, awaken base and 2nd chakras, connect to your divine sensuality
Scent Your Space:
In a classic oil burner with a candle, add these oils to the water:
“Rudolph Valentino”
Ylang Ylang 10 drops
Orange 10 drops
Patchouli 5 drops
Nourish Your Bodies:
To make a beautiful oil blend In 6 teaspoons of oil like almond, apricot, jojoba, sunflower add:
“Entwine”
Ylang Ylang 5 drops
Pink Grapefruit 9 drops
Cardamom 1 drop
Anoint Your Skin
A drop or two of an essential oil on a pulse point, chakra point, or as said Coco Chanel said – wear your perfume wherever to want to be kissed. Mix these two together, add a few drops of carrier oil and use your imagination and intention:
“Did You Just Put A Spell On Me?”
Ylang Ylang 2 drops
Cinnamon 1 drop
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Raw sandalwood and the powder
2. Sandalwood (Indian)
Keywords: awaken Kundalini energy, sacred sexuality, deep hypnotic aphrodisiac
Scent Your Space:
In a classic oil burner with a candle, add these oils to the water:
“Vortex”
Sandalwood 8 drops
Mandarin 14 drops
Nutmeg 3 drops
Nourish Your Bodies:
To make a beautiful oil blend In 6 teaspoons of oil like almond, apricot, jojoba, sunflower add:
“Galactic Magic”
Sandalwood 8 drops
Petitgrain 7 drops
Anoint Your Skin
A drop or two of an essential oil on a pulse point, chakra point, or as said Coco Chanel said – wear your perfume wherever to want to be kissed. Mix these two together and use your imagination:
“Alchemy”
Sandalwood 2 drops
Lime 1 drops
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Jasmine
3. Jasmine
Keywords: powerful message of renewal, charm and attraction, stimulates lower chakras and desire for connection with another.
Scent Your Space:
In a classic oil burner with a candle, add these oils to the water:
“Spontaneous Combustion”
Jasmine 30 drops or more (assuming you have 3% Jasmine in Jojoba which is the standard retail offering, as it is a premium oil and the 100% pure is very expensive).
Rosewood 5 drops
Nourish Your Bodies:
To make a beautiful oil blend In 6 teaspoons of oil like almond, apricot, jojoba, sunflower add:
“The Golden Ratio”
Jasmine 15 drops (jasmine in jojoba)
Cedarwood Atlas 2 drops
Anoint Your Skin
A drop or two of an essential oil on a pulse point, chakra point, or as said Coco Chanel said – wear your perfume wherever to want to be kissed. Just use Jasmine on its own, for a powerful “come hither” scent.
“Dance of the Nymph”
Jasmine 5 drops (jasmine in jojoba)
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